Would you rather?

• Discover new things about each other, assess how well you really know each other
• Party Games
• Icebreakers/Warmups
• Icebreakers for Online Team Building

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• List of questions

Come up with a list of Would you Rather Questions or use some of these:

• Would you rather always take a cold shower or sleep an hour less than you need to be fully rested?
• Would you rather always get first dibs or the last laugh?
• Would you rather always have to say everything on your mind or never speak again?
• Would you rather always lose or never play?
• Would you rather always wear earmuffs or a nose plug?
• Would you rather always win pie-eating contests or always win wheelbarrow races?
• Would you rather be 3 feet tall or 8 feet tall?
• Would you rather be 3 feet taller or 3 feet shorter?
• Would you rather be a deep sea diver or an astronaut?
• Would you rather be a dog named Killer or a cat named Fluffy?
• Would you rather be a giant hamster or a tiny rhino?
• Would you rather be a tree or live in a tree?
• Would you rather be able to hear any conversation or take back anything you say?
• Would you rather be able to read everyone’s mind all the time or always know their future?
• Would you rather be able to stop time or fly?
• Would you rather be an unknown minor league basketball player or a famous professional badminton star?
• Would you rather be born with an elephant trunk or a giraffe neck?
• Would you rather be forced to tell your best friend a lie or tell your parents the truth?
• Would you rather be forgotten or hatefully remembered?
• Would you rather be go about your normal day naked or fall asleep for a year?
• Would you rather be gossipped about or never talked about at all?
• Would you rather be hairy all over or completely bald?
• Would you rather be happy for 8hrs/day and poor or sad for 8hr/day and rich?
• Would you rather be invisible or be able to read minds?
• Would you rather be rich and ugly, or Poor and good looking?
• Would you rather be stranded on an island alone or with someone you hate?
• Would you rather be the most popular or the smartest person you know?
• Would you rather be the sand castle or the wave?
• Would you rather eat a bar of soap or drink a bottle of dishwashing liquid?
• Would you rather eat a handful of hair or lick three public telephones?
• Would you rather eat a stick of butter or a gallon of ice cream?
• Would you rather eat a stick of margarine or five tablespoons of hot pepper sauce?
• Would you rather eat poison ivy or a handful of bumblebees?
• Would you rather end hunger or hatred?
• Would you rather find true love or 10 million dollars?
• Would you rather forget who you were or who everyone else was?
• Would you rather get caught singing in the mirror or spying on your crush?
• Would you rather get even or get over it?
• Would you rather give bad advice or take bad advice?
• Would you rather give up your computer or your pet?
• Would you rather go to an amusement park or to a family reunion?
• Would you rather go without television or junk food for the rest of your life?
• Would you rather have a beautiful house and ugly car or an ugly house and beautiful car?
• Would you rather have a kangaroo or koala as your pet?
• Would you rather have a missing finger or have an extra toe?
• Would you rather have one wish granted today or three wishes granted in 10 years?
• Would you rather have x-ray vision or bionic hearing?
• Would you rather invent a cure for cancer or a cure for AIDS?
• Would you rather kiss a jellyfish or step on a crab?
• Would you rather know it all or have it all?
• Would you rather live without music or live without T.V.?
• Would you rather love and not be loved back, or be loved but never love?
• Would you rather make headlines for saving somebody's life or winning a nobel prize?
• Would you rather meet an alien visitor or travel to outer space?
• Would you rather never use the internet again or never watch TV again?
• Would you rather not be able to use your phone or your e-mail?
• Would you rather only be able to whisper or only be able to shout?
• Would you rather own a ski lodge or a surf camp?
• Would you rather publish your diary or make a movie on your most embarrassing moment?
• Would you rather spend the day surfing the internet or the ocean?
• Would you rather sweat moderately but constantly 24 hours a day all over your body or have a metal pin in your jaw that constantly picks up talk radio stations?
• Would you rather sit next to someone on a bus, who looks at you then moves seat, Or have someone in a car look at you, then turn around and lock their door?
• Would you rather spend your last night alive going out to dinner with your closest friends, or have it with your favorite movie star?
• Would you rather have to spend the next year repeating the fourth grade (at your current age), or spend a month in jail for a crime you did not commit?
• Would you rather have a third leg or a third arm?
• Would you rather live as a dog or live as a cat?
• would you rather live as a lion or live as a tiger?
• Would you rather watch a horror movie with 10 friends, or try and survive a horror film with your 3 closest friends?

Get together with a group of friends and take turns asking eachother the questions above. If you have extra time try to come up with your own questions.

• Have everyone answer secretly and show the tally. (Example 2 said... and 3 said...). Then try to guess who answered which way.
• If you don't want to come up with your own list, or you don't like the ones above, you can find a lot more questions with a Google search for "would you rather".(WARNING: many of those sites are full of adult-themed and often gross scenarios).
• There are some boardgames based on this activity: e.g. Zobmondo - Classic Would You Rather and Justin & Dave's Awesome Would You Rather.
• Terrible Choices is a social gaming approach with only bad choices (WARNING: this site is full of adult-themed and often gross scenarios).
• Would You Rather Jokes is a social gaming approach using Twitter.
• For those of you in the U.K. try "Would you prefer".